7th Annual Meeting; :”What Works What Doesn’t” and Dentist Panel

RiverWoods, CCRC:

Retirement, What works, What Doesn’t

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Dentist Panelists

 

The presentation of Christine Hegarty  from the RiverWoods Continuing Care Retirement Community was useful. Working with hundreds of older residents over several years Christine has a unique perspective about what it takes to live successfully as we age.

Retirement is one of life’s major stressors and is best managed with adequate planning. It can be a luxurious, fulfilling, adventure, or a miserable period full of resentment and heartache.

What works:

  • Make a realistic plan and share it with a spouse.
  • Discuss expectations.
  • Allow a spouse to have space. Don’t expect to be together 24/7.
  • Seek input from your children.
  • Pursue what fills the spirit.
  • Surround yourself with people who fill you up rather than those who deplete you.
  • Try new things, realize it is OK to fail, and be ready to try something else.
  • Be prepared for the unexpected, such as illness, death, or a changing financial picture.

 

What doesn’t work:

  • Expecting spouse is in “lock step” with one’s plans if there has been no unexpressed expectations.
  • Expecting to work forever.
  • Expecting retirement to be a long vacation.
  • Not preparing for it.

 

Notes from Dentist panelists:

  • Need a Plan.
  • Give back to the community.
  • “Know when to hold ‘em, when to fold ‘em, and when to walk away.”
  • Be a mentor.
  • Be able to emotionally detach.
  • Sources of ideas: encore.org and www.meetup.com

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